I Was Inspired By A Goalie

September 23^rd, 1992.

I remember that day fondly. It was the day that my love of the game of hockey changed. I was 13 years old, and had just gotten into hockey thanks to some male schoolmates that I tried to impress.  I remember waking up that morning for school and headed into the dining room.  The soft sounds of WALK played from the kitchen radio that my parents played every morning. There was the aroma of Folgers wafting through the kitchen (and now we know the root of my addiction…), and my dad sitting at the dining room table reading Newsday.  As I sat down at the table, I waited not-so-patiently for him to finish, and as he closed the newspaper, I snatched it up.  I did what I had done religiously for the past few weeks. I flipped it over to the back and was greeted by some sports image of sorts.  I flipped through the pages and was caught by the hoopla around a female playing her first NHL game.

I scoffed and probably snorted too.

“A woman playing hockey?” I thought to myself, followed by a classic “Pffffft”. Funny, coming from a girl who had just signed up for her first hockey league to play on an all male team right?

Now, back in the day, we had MSG, ESPN and Newsday. Those were my only sources of hockey information.  No internet access, no Twitter, and no Google.  How the heck did we ever come out of the early 90’s alive?  So I waited.  I was curious.  I wanted to see how she did. After all, she was only playing goalie. I carried on my day as usual that day, came home from school, flipped on ESPN and waited. 

I don’t remember the exact coverage that ESPN had on Rheaume at that time, but I’m sure it was far better than any NHL coverage they currently have today. I believe they did show snippets or something of her one period manning (or womanning) of the pipes.  I was amazed. She showed such poise, such confidence.  After watching a few more minutes of ESPN, I went to bed. The next day was the first day of hockey practice.

As my mom rolled up to the rink in her tiny Mitsubishi sedan, I remember how excited I was. My hands were clenched around the handles of my large equipment bag. I could not wait to get out of the car.  As she stopped, I wasted little time opening the car door and sprinting to the doors.  I opened them and was ushered to a row of folding chairs where I sat and watched as boy upon boy piled in the room.  There were a few girls spread out here and there, but my team was all guys. That scared me.  I was not a confident person. And playing with all guys, many of whom had a significant height advantage on me, was daunting.  But then I thought back to yesterday and sat up a little straighter in my chair.

After we all settled in, there came the million dollar question.

“What position do you play?”

“I… uh…”

Apparently I was equally as suave and good with words then as I am now. “Goalie”, raced thru my mind. It was a natural choice, given that I was on the heftier side. After all, I could literally cover more net, and wouldn’t have to move too much. Win-Win situation right there.  But the thought of galvanized rubber being shot at my face with only some metal caging between me and said puck scared the bejeebus out of me. So I muttered out…

“Right wing” which was followed by a cringe.

I spent many years playing right wing. Ice hockey, roller hockey, dek hockey. It didn’t matter.  I enjoyed it.  I still cringe though, every time a goalie takes a puck to the mask and think to myself that I made the right decision.

So, you’re probably wondering what Manon Rheaume had to do with all of this, especially since I don't play goalie.  Well, I’ll tell you. She made me realize that I too, could play hockey with guys.  Granted, it was no where near the same level.  I remember following her in the papers, and on ESPN, but the coverage was minimal at best.  It wasn’t until we got internet in the late 90’s that I actually began to look her up and learn more about her.  By this time, I had a few seasons of hockey behind me, and I probably wouldn’t have played for so long had it not been for her. She broke the mold in the NHL. And I like mold-breakers.

While she only suited up for 26 games in her career with sub par numbers, she left a mark on many female hockey players of the early 90s, myself included. She made us all aware that you can be a girl and still play hockey. In 2008, she founded the ManonRheaumeFoundation in effort to encourage girls and women to play hockey. She even has a scholarship for girls under 19.  Its great to see the encouragement of girls playing hockey, when it used to be seen as a 'men's only' sport.

Guys Giving Back: Vinny Lecavalier

It makes my heart melt. (and yes, I do in fact have a heart…)

So, November is now known as #Movember. Yes, you need the hashtag for it to be legit.  #Movember is for men’s health awareness, and in particular, prostate cancer.  And what says ‘men’s health’ more than a wickedly awesome mustache? Exactly, nothing else.  Prostate cancer, according to the American Cancer Society, is estimated to take the lives of approximately 33,000 men in 2011, and that approximately 240,000 new cases will be diagnosed.  Prostate cancer is the second leading cause of cancer death in men, right behind lung cancer. As a soon-to-be oncology nurse, I’m always thrilled to read how athletes give back, especially when it comes to cancer and cancer research.  I’m sure many of us are following at least one NHL’er or athlete on Twitter who is growing one for men’s health. If you can, throw a dollar their way, make a small difference.  Check out http://us.movember.com/ and search for them. It’s easy really.  This prompted me to see who else is giving back, but not just in the month of #Movember.

This time I hunted around a bit to find another player who gives back.  As soon as I came across his website for his foundation, I knew I had to choose him. I spent a good hour or so reading about his foundation, and all they do. Again, I’m impressed and astonished, just as I was with Liles and Richards.  These guys give their heart and their souls to their foundations, and it shows. 

This week’s Guys Giving Back guy is Vinny Lecavalier from the Tampa Bay Lightning, a name almost every hockey fan knows. Not only does Lecavalier excel on the ice, he also excels in the community.  

Founded in 2003, TheVincent Lecavalier Foundation focuses on the All Children’s Hospital and the families and children of the Tampa Bay Area.  His foundation’s mission statement is straight forward:

The Vinny Lecavalier Foundation works to build hope for children and families battling pediatric cancer and blood disorders and to fund medical research, programming and pediatric patient care through the new Vincent Lecavalier Pediatric Cancer and Blood Disorders Center at All Children’s Hospital in St. Petersburg, FL.

In 2007, he made a gracious donation to have constructed the Vincent Lecavalier Pediatric Cancer and Blood Disorders Center at the All Children’s Hospital.  This wing, which was completed around January 2010, boasts 28 rooms, all equipped with the technology, knowledgeable staff and touches of home that would be a welcome site to any family that has to endure the battle of cancer. If you browse his website, you’ll be amazed at what the Center has to offer. I looked at countless photos of him visiting the Center, and its amazing to see the smiles on these kids faces.  Working in healthcare, I know that sometimes one visit can mean the world to a patient.  It helps them forget for a moment all that is wrong, and relish the special moments. It’s something that you do for the patient, not for yourself. Sure, you can put a price on a wing in a hospital, new equipment, etc… But nothing is as priceless as a smile from a patient. 

Nothing.

I don’t think ‘admiration’ is quite enough to describe how I feel about writing these past few articles. I’m humbled by the giving that takes place by these truly amazing men. It makes me not only proud to be an NHL fan, but to also have chosen healthcare as my career.